it is about how much you can get hit and keep moving forward
Have you watched Rocky BalBoa movie? This part is the part I remembered the most.
Rocky told his son:
“You ain’t gonna believe this, but you used to fit right here. I’d hold you up and say to your mother: “This kid is gonna be the best kid in the world. This kid is gonna be somebody better than anybody ever knew.” And you grew up good and wonderful. It was great watching. Everyday is like a privilege.
Then the time comes for you to be your own man and take on the world, and you did! But somewhere along the line, you changed. You stopped being you. You let people stick a finger in your face and tell you you’re no good. And when things got hard, you started looking for something to blame, like a big shadow.
Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life.
But it ain’t about how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. . How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done.
Now, if you know what you’re worth, then go out and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers and saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him or her or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that!”
I am so totally agree with him! It is so true for me. I not the smartest guy in the world, nor the most resourceful guy. I am just someone who doesn’t give up. I got hit hard in my life before, until the point that I intend to give up.
Many people envy those people who have successful businesses or career and can just relax and let the money roll in. When they start to follow those people and start their own businesses or career, some of them do fail. They got hit real hard and gave up eventually and accept a mediocre life.
There were times when I got hit real hard in my life. I faced many problems that I have no idea on how to solve it. The thought of giving up has always be in my mind. I once felt that I should just give up and enjoy my life away happily with friends. I had to cancel my gatherings and meetings with friends for my business. When my friends are having fun outside, I was at home working on my business. The thing that makes me carry on is the desire to succeed in whatever I do. I believe, if I do not give up, there’s sure a way to overcome it.
Maybe I will share some problems I faced before:
- My business partner left me and make fun of the business, Tuition Finder (now known as iTutor Agency).
- I got a new business partner and he left me shortly too.
- My friends teased me for having a lousy tuition agency.
- After I revamped my tuition agency and renamed it, I faced legal issues with another tuition agency which intend to use ‘iTutor’ as their business name too. I was on the verge of being sued.
- etc, etc.
As an amature in doing business, I faced those problems mentioned above! I did thought of stopping my tuition agency 3 years ago. When I faced with those legal issues, I was so lost and totally clueless in solving it. Despite all these, I did not give up. Just like Rocky mentioned, “it ain’t about how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. . How much you can take, and keep moving forward“, it is really not about how hard you can hit. All the problems have hit me hard, but I kept moving forward.
Have you ever seen or heard awful stories by others of a successful entrepreneur before? They will say that entrepreneur was lucky or has helped from his father or has many connections from his relatives and friends, etc. I think those people only know how to talk and never reflect on themselves. They thought those people has faced less obstacles or have a smooth process.
From my experience, I feel that every plan will sure screw up. Nothing will goes accordingly as you planned. It is how you managed it and appeared as a successful plan.
Now, if you know you are capable of doing certain things, then go out there and do it! But you must be prepared to take all kinds of obstacles along the way.
Quitters never win, Winners never quit.






